Kelsie Boucher

Day 21 Update: 213kms of 300kms Complete!

Yesterday marked day 15/30 in the Live Fearless Challenge; An Unforeseen Twist in My IBD Journey

Day 10/30

"To truly embrace who you've become, you must learn to appreciate the journey that's sculpted you."

As I embark on another year of the Live Fearless challenge, I'm reminded of these words. Living with IBD can be a formidable journey, and every year, we unite to support Crohn’s and Colitis Australia through this remarkable challenge. 

This year, it holds an even more profound place in my heart. In November 2017, at the age of 27, I was diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis. However, this year marked a significant milestone for me as I underwent rectum removal surgery on April 28th. 

This procedure left me with six incisions on my abdomen, one slicing through my pelvis, and a substantial cut practically following my entire arse crack line. Little did I know, the journey post-surgery would be an incredible testament to resilience and determination.

Post-surgery, I found myself struggling to run even twenty metres without experiencing intense discomfort or getting a stitch. It was a stark reminder of how deeply the surgery had affected my body. The journey to recovery seemed daunting, and there were moments when I questioned if I would ever regain my physical fitness.

Participating in the Live Fearless Challenge has always been a source of motivation for me. It's not just about raising awareness and funds; it's a personal battle against the limitations that IBD can impose on our lives. This year, my participation has held even more significance. I was and still am, determined to prove to myself that I can rise above the challenges imposed by my surgery and continue to live an active, fearless life.

As I write this post, it's day 10 of the Live Fearless Challenge, and I'm thrilled to share that I've already recorded over 100kms of activity (107kms to be precise; if my non-intentional was to be included, that number is just over 158kms). My initial goal for the challenge was 300kms, and I'm well on my way to achieving it. Each step I take is not only a personal triumph but also a symbol of resilience in the face of adversity.

My journey towards recovery was and is filled with ups and downs. It required patience, dedication, and a supportive network of family and friends who encouraged me every step of the way. From the initial days of post-surgery discomfort to the small victories of walking without pain, every moment has shaped me into the woman looking back in the mirror.

Fast forward 19 weeks to today, and I find myself not just walking but running around ovals with a newfound bounce in my step. The transformation has been remarkable. Each stride I take feels like a triumph over the adversity I faced post-surgery. I am reminded that even in the face of physical challenges, the human body has an incredible capacity to heal and adapt.

The Live Fearless challenge has been an integral part of my journey towards recovery and empowerment. It has taught me that no obstacle is insurmountable, and with determination and support, we can conquer even the most formidable challenges. My journey continues, but I now face it with renewed strength and a fearless spirit. 

I invite you to join me in supporting Crohn’s and Colitis Australia through the Live Fearless challenge, as we together strive to make a difference and show that we can live fearlessly, no matter the obstacles life throws our way. 

This journey has shown me that with the right mindset and determination, we can overcome anything.

With determination in my stride and resilience in my heart - The OG Fearless Barbie Butt.

Rein in your reaction, girl!

Yesterday, someone asked me about my "pink tigers eye" bracelet. My response? It's all about anxiety reduction. Laughingly, I said I could use a whole armful of them right now – and I wasn't even joking. 

Anxiety wears many faces. Like mistaking an upset stomach for anxiety-induced unease. You don't need an Anxiety Disorder diagnosis to feel its grip.

When anxiety hits, focus on priorities. Take charge of what you can, let go of the rest… or at least rein in your reaction.

Anxiety sometimes just gets real—case in point, my stomach upset and a leaky colostomy bag. Acid burn, seriously?!

Past weeks, supplies became my sidekicks, preventing disaster. Yet, acid burn strikes again in the Boardroom this past Monday—swift change of supplies, satin top and all.

Today, collected 60-day stash, but oops, ordered the wrong ones. Panic time. 

Pause, girl. You've got this. Handle the controllable, enquiry sent about a supply switch. 

How Your Support Transforms Lives in the IBD Community

A heartfelt thank you goes out to all the wonderful souls who generously donated to back not just me, but the entire CCA community. Your contributions have propelled me past my personal goal of $300. But here's where it gets crucial…

That $300 translates to a couple of nurse consultations. Did you know that individuals with IBD have dedicated nurses on standby? The reason is simple: the speed at which their condition can worsen. So, if you're in a position to offer financial support, rest assured, it's a direct step towards making a tangible impact right here in Australia. Your contribution matters. 

A Journey of Strength, Balancing Parenthood and Work, while Living Fearlessly

As a 33-year-old female, I proudly wear the hats of a devoted mum and a passionate manager, and I'm eager to take you along on my impactful experience with the Live Fearless Challenge. This journey has been a testament to the strength we find within ourselves, as I navigate the complexities of motherhood and a demanding career, all while facing the challenges brought on by my diagnosis of Ulcerative Colitis (UC) in 2017. 

In 2017, life threw me a curveball when I received my UC diagnosis. As a mother, I knew I had to summon all the strength I had to face this new reality. My child became my motivation to push through the toughest days, and with his bright smile, I found the courage to accept the challenge that lay ahead.

As a manager in a demanding workplace, balancing work responsibilities and personal health became a delicate tightrope act. The unpredictability of UC taught me the value of self-compassion and the need to prioritise my well-being while leading a team. Through challenges and triumphs, I learned that taking care of myself also meant being a better manager for my team.

In 2018, I underwent an ileostomy surgery, a decision that demanded immense strength and courage. It was a confronting experience, teaching me to appreciate life's smallest joys and find beauty in the face of adversity. Then, in 2023, came the rectum removal surgery, which further reinforced my resilience and determination to live life on my terms.

Living with UC has opened my eyes to the far-reaching effects this disease can have on our bodies and minds. From physical struggles that affect our bones, energy levels, hair, skin, and nails, to the emotional toll it takes on our minds and hearts. I've come to understand the importance of addressing every aspect of my well-being.

Participating in the Live Fearless Challenge has been a game-changer for me. It has allowed me to connect with fellow warriors, who share their own stories of courage and determination. This community has become a light of inspiration, reminding me that I am not alone on this journey and that together, we can create change and support each other through life's trials.